It was always hurtful, though, that she showed no interest in anything I did. Never went to one performance or concert; never listened to any of the 4 CDs we made; never showed any interest in the building & architectural projects I worked on. But boy, was I expected to attend every function, every reception, every project she was involved in. And I did it; not grudgingly but admiringly, and I encouraged her and praised her every chance I could get.
Telemark, I really feel for you on this issue. To create something so personal like art and have your own partner not show an interest is so hurtful. I hope if things don't work out with your W, that you find a woman who truly appreciates your music because something you create should be cherished by those who love you. I get this more than you know.