Devastated Pt 3 - WAH and OW

[Julz]

I'm really sorry, Julz. But honestly, what kind of woman moves in with a married man who just left his wife and children to be with her?

I can't see this relationship lasting and even if it does, I bet someday she will be wondering if he will do it to her the minute the relationship honeymoon period is over. Because we all know it will be at some point.

They're the ones that lose, not you.

I know - sometime down the track he'll probably get bored with her. Doesn't help that I still love him like crazy and even after all this crap I'd take him back. We were a happy family - until the day he walked out he never once did anything wrong by me. I can't even find anything to hate about him to make the pain less. I just want to get out and start dating - he is so why can't I? Why do I have to wait till I'm allowed to divorce him (which I don't want to do) - he'll never divorce me unless she wants to marry him.