hmmm... well, review the whole book... that should give you a good idea about piecing... lol...
No really, you're probably good to review chapters 6, 7, and 8...
But you will need to review the basic DB principles... to make sure you stay the course and don't get yourself too emotionally attached to the idea that maybe things are going to work out...
On getting together... understand... SHE initiated and set up the meeting...
it will be best to let her lead... even if a 180 might be for you to lead, this is her meeting and her dime... if she doesn't have an agenda, that would be odd...
LISTEN and VALIDATE... but KNOW WHO YOU ARE and hold your emotional ground...
as 25 suggested above... one of the things that would need to happen is for her to move back in... it's not an M if there isn't a common, familial home... so there's no M to piece, if you aren't living at home...
if all this brings about is that you two start "dating" again... great...
my money is on... she has an agenda... she'll likely ask you a tonne of questions, if she's not coming in with demands...
be honest... but IMHO... it is HER that needs to commit to the M with ACTIONS...
listen...
validate...
be honest...
short, simply, courteous answers...
be pleasant...
be your BEST... dressed, cologne... maybe a spritz of some lady perfume, just to keep her guessing...
