After 3 weeks of constant contact

[Lonely Room]

Thank you very much guys.

The idea of meeting her does freak me out! I know that part of the problem was that she lost her attraction for me... The fact that she's interested in me now means that somehow I attracted her again, but what if she doesn't "click" when we meet?

What if we don't have subjects to talk about? What if I commit a mistake? How should we greet? A kiss? A hug? Just a smile? For how long should we meet, and where, and how?

All these questions storm my mind. I prepared myself by looking at pictures of my wife... And I felt strong things inside me. It was as if I was looking into a powerful icon, but at the same time my brain was asking "who's that woman now?". Does this make sense?

I do think that we need to be careful. I think that we're more on the reconciliation side that on the separation side, but I know there's still a long way to go and that there are many many ways that things can go back.

I struggle to find references to "piecing" in the Divorce Remedy. What are the relevant chapters?

Thank you very much! Cheers.