Oh, I don't think it's anything at all (the conversation). But I try not to be in the room when they're on the phone, since I'm not interested in the conversation.
However, I would have to say that H sends me email at least every other day, if not every day, and at least 70% of it is pointless stuff I don't need to know - it just feels contrived.
I'm not speculating as to *why* he's doing it, but guh! For someone who I used to have to beg to even *read* my emails, let alone respond, he's doing a lot of initiating - I suspect he's trying to come to terms with my going dark.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11