how long have u been together? Any specifics about those type of things help.

Plus I guess u are on moderation so your posts will get buried at first. Be patient, keep posting...journal, and the posts will start showing up quickly eventually.

I'm SO sorry you have found yourself here, but the experienced DBers and those who have been successful will help you a TON!!!!

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed