Checking in...it's been a week since things with H have been more pleasant again. We've gotten along all week, shuffling kids back and forth, and he had a big success in his work this past week. I was the first person he called with the news. I was so very happy for him. Additionally, we stayed together as a family this weekend at an out of town tourney for my oldest son. Seemed like old times.
I continue to feel like I'm emotionally detaching more and more each day, even though I see and communicate with him several times daily. I have no desire to do any R talk (a big change from the past) and am truly content with just taking things day by day, at least for now. Time, better than anything, tells if a person is willing and able to make changes. I think he's still deciding if he wants to make those changes or to check out for good. Whatever happens, I'm at peace.