25 you are my best friend LOL..... Yes ---- BE QUIET!! I know. I actually did get a rubber band and put it on my wrist like i said. I WILL use it if my heart wants to take control of my mouth!!

Going to movie with W and S4 in a few. At least it got her to leave OW's house to spend time wiht us. That can't be bad smile

25 anytime i need a 2 x 4 please wallop my a** with it!!!!! Or send me some duct tape for my mouth!!!!!! Actually, funny thing, my DB counselor (Cheryl, awesome) said the OW is not my biggest problem. I AM MY BIGGEST PROBLEM (mouth). You are all correct. I will probably backslide some, but they will be less frequent.

I want her to feel safe in my presence and that I am capable of long term change...... I can be that person. I will!!!!!


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed