I'm just wondering about the dynamics of his ex moving in with him...
I have a lot of really good friendships with exGFs, and prior to being M, I did have a couple times that exGFs and I considered rekindling our Rs... none of that was successful and that's fine...
I'm just wondering what it might mean for your H to have an ex as an OW...
It doesn't affect how you DB, though! And try to be clear that you should not be competing with her...!
You are his W and through your DBing, you are becoming an even greater woman that only a fool would leave...
Maybe this is the point where he renews an R and possibly remarries his ex, or she is just a diversion and his poor kids will once again be devastated when they do not "work out"...
Nothing you can do about that... just be the best you can be and if your step kids reach out and try to maintain an R with you... make sure you are there for them in a respectful, step parent kind of way...
