Devastated Pt 3 - WAH and OW

[Julz]

So kids are home from their weekend with dad. We're not even home and they tell me OW and her D are moving in in a fortnight. Trying not to care and doing a good job of it. I am really starting to accept that what we had, what we planned for our future is gone. He's off doing his thing and doesn't give a F about me and his kids.

I just hate that my kids now grow up with a weekend dad. He's raising someone elses kid - he gets to tuck someone else's kid into bed at night, and make someone elses kid breakfast - my children - his children miss out on this. I'm determined to be the best mum in the world to them, but at times they need a dad. They both adore their father and it's so not fair on them.

They also spent the dad - Father's day with her dad! WE always spent the day as a family, or sometimes at his parents - he didn't like my parents so we never ever spent the day with my family.