Thanks Kaffe You are so right. I am by no means perfect, but I've spent 4 years trying to "help" him realize some of the things he does, and he cannot, and I'm not sure will ever look inside himself. Everyone in the house sees it, even his own kids........
I'm out of the house now, staying with my brother until my new house is ready on the 16th. Everything of mine is out of the house, and its pretty empty, but I'm working on myself, and feel better just knowing I don't ever have to go back there.
