I'm afraid to here the answers to this....I am naive on the topic.
Is it customary for seperated people to date.....have sex with other people before a D is finalized? I know it happens...not that stupid.
Just seems to be the ultimate insult to me. I know we are splitting but still feel a commitment to fulfill the vows we took until they are officially gone. I also know that my W having sex wtih someone else would push our sitch beyond the point of reconciliation. Hope would be lost at that point. Maybe I'm just afraid of the finality of it? I plan to honor our vows until the end, is it out of line to expect the same from her?