new to the Big D

[kat727]

You can't live your life hoping that he will want to try again. The relationships that I know of on here that worked out were where the LBS truly moved on. One guy was even selling his house and going to move to a new state. He had dropped the rope and was building a life for himself. The divorce wasn't finalized yet. Just a few days before they were to go to court to finalize the divorce, she wanted to stop the process and see if they could work things out.

So few of us are at that point before the divorce becomes final. We are doing everything that we can think of to bring them back. The key though seems to just let them go. Work on you and building a new life. If they then express a desire to come back, well you can decide then. But don't start this as a facade, it has to be genuine.

Hugs, kat