I wonder if you can ask your "semi-WAS on the seesaw 4forever", if HE could go dark for awhile?
Sheesh...enough already. Sorry but I had to ask...
Do you have at least an internal timeline of how long you can do this endurance test? I think it makes it easier to know that at some point you will not be in limbo no matter what they do.
(It helped me at least. I had a d in high school and knew when she was done 18-24 months later, I would be done too, one way or the other.)
I actually wonder if YOU making a move would get him out of his fog. Not saying it will, but letting him have power he isn't able to wield in a mature
way, isn't working too well for you or the kids I'd imagine. They need predictability and reliability (and you need a sane partner?)...
Seriously though, what if you took some of your power back?
If you have tried that (i confess being new to your thread) how'd it go?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
