Of Men or of Angels

[ericmsant2]

Bro,

I am hurting.

I know man…I know. You are not alone buddy. You need to Feel it man… let it all out dude.

Then remember

D papers or not…YOU buddy not her say when this chit is over!

I hope this gives you peace in moving forward with your life and to enjoy it and make the most of it everyday.

Personally, I recently came to realize that I needed something…something to help give me the peace I needed to move forward. It recently happened and I am grateful for it. Maybe Grit, just maybe the answer you received in her email…..is what you needed to set YOURSELF completely free from this. What you needed to let you know, that YOU did EVERYTHING you could have.

My comments above were based on your quote…..

My first reaction?

Relief.

Your tired Bro, tired of a lot of things…..IMO, you needed the answer – totally understandable. You may begin to feel like you should not have, you may begin to look back and your last few interactions, you may question yourself. If you must do it, look at everything, search yourself, have a little regret about how you may have dealt with the last few interactions and then……let it go.

And I am burned.

OR CLEANSED…..depends on how you look at it. Yes you have walked through the fire but what did the fire do….burn you beyond recognition or cleans you from the crap you needed burned out of your life. Bring you to a better place knowledge of self?

I just speak of two of people who held such promise and innocence as they embarked on a wonderful romance. That will never go away.

No it shouldn’t go away either. It was not all bad – never was – never disrespect what you had (not saying you are or did)…just never disrespect it.

Love Grit…..

Love….

What does it mean to YOU?

Remember some of the old posts man….

“I love you” IF

I love you BUT
True, you love her and this hurts, hurts like a mofo. Yes I know that you can take it, you can handle it. Step back for a day or two….DO NOT respond to her email. Come here and post.

I suspect that you may want to respond to her email….hell you are in pain…please don’t.

Why do I say this?

Cause the man I know…the man that inspires many…the man the leads by EXAMPLE….

Well he wouldn’t. He would wait, he would know better than to react when he is emotional..

It is TIME Brother….

It is TIME….

For Grit ….

To show her…who HE IS.

Know this brother…..You the mother fu*king man! Now show her….

Consider this….

Is she testing? Does she need to see something from you? She knows the OLD Grit..does she know the new one?

Maybe she could….

If you want to show her that new Man. The man I know. Maybe you may show her that for a while and that’s okay.

Friends…..

Sometime the way to get to know someone is to be their friend.

Can you be her friend? The man I know could (wouldn’t be easy)….cause he was just that…a MAN full of compassion and LOVE.

Time my brother for the rubber to meet the road!

I’m hear…walking with ya…watching ya…and always….always….Impressed!