My instincts tell me to make it hard. Not to get too deep into the Mommy Issues, but my mother was the queen of the guilt trip. I remember the ploys during the divorce and even when I was taking a job thousands of miles away from home after college.
WOW...just had an awakening. I'm pursuing the same strategies.
I try to guilt my wife into reevaluating things. i know my Mom always came out on the losing end of her guilt strategy.
