I've been following your thread for a while Telemark but I haven't posted in a while on your thread.

I think you've been doing great considering the circumstances you've been facing.

You've maintained your position while still being loving. I think that is an excellent balance that many, especially myself, are not able to maintain as consistently as you have been able to.

I'll be praying for you. I hope this isn't a violation of any site rules but since you're a man of faith you may want to check out a site I found. Google "Rejoice Ministries." It's a ministry out of Florida that is dedicated solely to the restoration of marriages. They have many testimonies and praise reports of restored marriages under the worst circumstances. I'd recommend signing up for their free newsletter...it has plenty of inspirational scriptures that keep me going even when I feel like there's nothing but the finality of this thing left.

Keep pressing on man. You're a huge inspiration to me. Guys like you, jb, CS, west, etc....you all give me strength to want to become a better man because I see men getting better with each post.


mid 20s
Tgther 7 yrs
W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11
W filed 05/11/11
I moved out 08/05/11
Mediation mid Oct 11
D final Dec 11
Now what? ...2012