It's hard - but I don't think about my H and OW together. The kids come home and say that OW and her D slept over - but even though I know the OW I can't imagine the two of them together - and I think that helps me a lot. I also tell myself that what he does whilst seperated and also what I do whilst seperated means nothing to our marriage. We are seperated - living seperate lives - we are free to do what we want - the same as before we met we were free to be with and to sleep with whoever we wanted to.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
