DG, he's feeling guiltt and seeking to cast it elsewhere rather than assume responsibility. I do not know him, but I know some people lie when they have been caught and the guiltier they feel the more likely it is.
It was the OWS fault? It was your fault? Please.
The mantra we all hear believe none of what they say and half of what you see them do?
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
Sounds like you need a glass of wine, beer, stiff drink, or hot cocoa. I'm buying.
Jokes aside. You DO know you are. What happened today blows, but do NOT give him the power to take away everything you've worked for including the new DG.
He doesn't deserve that power!
(( ))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
It's hard - but I don't think about my H and OW together. The kids come home and say that OW and her D slept over - but even though I know the OW I can't imagine the two of them together - and I think that helps me a lot. I also tell myself that what he does whilst seperated and also what I do whilst seperated means nothing to our marriage. We are seperated - living seperate lives - we are free to do what we want - the same as before we met we were free to be with and to sleep with whoever we wanted to.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
Yeah just like my husband wanted to sort out the things in head. That there was no one else, he didn't want someone else and didn't plan to be with someone else for a long time - it just happened.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
