So why is it I feel like I just effed up big time?
You did not eff up! You had an emotional response during a time of stress. It is very human to do so. I suspect you feel as though you effed up b/c of all the drama and what you knew, but didn’t want has been suddenly made very real. Again it is very human to do so. Please process it to negate some of the emotions. You need to feel them, but you don’t need them to control how you respond.
Please do not sign anything until you’ve carefully reviewed it and understand the entire ramifications of agreeing. Please retain a L to represent your interests and advise you. Until my drama I had a somewhat distorted view of Ls (Sorry Denver, and 25). My L has kept me from making several costly mistakes. D is not a friendly, don’t worry, I’ll watch your back action.
There is so much wrong with the way he handled this I don’t know where to begin, and my rant would probably violate the TOS. Just reading this makes me angry. I can only imagine yours. I commend your composure. Try and remain calm for you and your children’s sake.
CS and JB are right, your children will remember how you composed yourself and got on with living.
He got outed and he takes out his guilt on a child? WTF?
I know you loved the man he was.
I am wondering what the OW loves. I am wondering what he loves about himself.
WTH, is the dynamic with the OW. If I was seeing the most devastatingly attractive to me women and she began going “rounds” with one of my kids over her guilt she’d find the door very fast.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
