this is a snip it from something i found about what a healthy relationship should contain.
Honesty & Trust -Giving real compliments -Discussing problems -Using “I” messages to share feelings -Asking for what we want, not expecting they owe it to us -Admitting mistakes -Asking (not accusing) each other about rumors
i think the last one here falls into what went wrong. i do this to with OM/baby daddy. i assume and accuse.