I can understand that, Barb. I've never been one who had to have intense contact with his R partner. I do find the FB messaging with MM much more fun than the phone. It's kind of mysterious and I can flirt better than in person I find. The other night she said she hadn't been able to sleep and I wrote "you couldn't stop thinking of older brother, right?" and her reply was "hehehehehe thinking of older brother, ha!" It's fun talking and teasing. I've always hated the phone, the dead silence while you both try and figure out what to say next! Anyway, tonight I just FB'd MM and said "Dad cleaned the dishes tonight" (she'd joked with my D17 last night not to worry about dishes Dad would do them) "I hope all went well today. Last days can be tough. I'm thinking of you (which I wrote in Tagalog)" and that will be it for tonight. I think you might be right Barb, we've had enough of each other for one week and both of us are a bit overwhelmed! Tonight, I watch the Argos take on the Lions. Aaaaargooooooos!