re-read some previous posts to my situation... wow. i have a long time to go here, this is not a quick fix anymore like i keep hoping. 25 said above... 2 weeks. be quiet, be still for 2 weeks. its been 2 days and i am seeing some cracks.
thanks all for posting your situations as well, i read through most of them and they do help, wishing you all the best of luck even if i dont post on your forum.
this is a personality change i needed to be more patient, and well i need to be patient to change so its rough. ill keep venting here to hold off talking to her. we will see how it goes!
