Perfect sense. I have spoken to you before and you always have sound advise.Unless I provoke h, he never says or does anything mean. Never has been that kinda guy. The worse thing he has ever called me was anal, and that was about the OCD and I deserved it. He really is a nice guy.The few times that he has gotten upset is as I said when I crossed what he thought were boundries.He is sooo concerned about being his own person because of how controlling I was. I am trying to be the best person I can, for me. My controlling and OCD and thinking that everyone should be just like me was awful. I knew when I did or said something that was mean or hurtful that I was wrong, just couldn't seem to control it. I always said exactly what I thought or felt regardless of someones else's feelings. I hated being like that. Now I actually like who I'm becoming. Still a work in progress but I feel so much better.As always I will take the advise I am givin and hopefully I can kkep doing what I'm doing because I have ssen baby steps. I am happy with that.