Right now I'm happy with the way things have been. Didn't mean to sound like I wasn't. I don't have R talks with him. I know that's what upsets him. I don't want to give any pressure. I will keep my mouth shut. Something that in the past wasn't possible. But I have learned alot in the last couple of months. It wasn't easy and counseling has really helped also. I do not want to rock the boat!!!!!!!!! Thanks