Sorry DG. I know it hurts. Even sometimes when we already know, a dose of reality can still be painful.
Very sad that the kids are talking about this. I’m sure they are very confused. As hard as it is. Your S will look to you to try and make sense out of all this. So your strength and compassion is not for your H. It is for you and your S.
Be well.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.