This is what I told my XW about a year before we were actually divorced.....
W, While I do not ever want to go through what I have been through for the last 7 months, I can honestly say that it is the best thing to have happened to me, as an individual, in my entire life. I will stop short of saying thank you but rather I will say that I am thankful for the journey and the experience and the things I have learned about myself.
I know you have also learned much about yourself also and I too am proud to call you one of my friends.
I hope this gives you peace in moving forward with your life and to enjoy it and make the most of it everyday.
Cheers
~C
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.