Feeding a squirrel, that's so funny but I get it. I am finally getting the detachment thing. The reason for my question is, I am also a member for a few MLC sites. On these sites they suggest that I draw the line and ask him to leave our BR, don't really want to do that but don't want him to think that I'm a doormat either. I guess in the future if he says that he's moving out I should just say "if that's what you want to do I support your decision" sound good? Thanks for the links trust me I read as much as I can. Thanks
