I am happy to annouce that I don't try to control any longer. You are correct. I should keep quiet and if it's his decision then it should be so.I don't really want him to move out. Even though he has threatened twice to move out he hasn't. You are wise. What about how he is acting lately. Like my old h. Hasn't shown an attempt to be affectionate or anything but is coming to me for conversation, and even offering to help do dishes. Please advise wise one, I am putty in your hands, mold me.
