Not sure what your answer to bea's Q is... in my sitch, I did sign up for the ride as I knew my W was a little... touched... as it were...
I didn't expect to change her, although I felt I was always there to support her and I stood because I made my choice...
Now that she wants out, and when she finally files D... I will not attempt to stop her... but I won't file... not because I want to stand in her way, but because it goes against my beliefs...
Once filed... I will entertain and conduct Rs with new women... It is what I want... I would not re-enter an intimate R with my W after the D... I think that's a time, kids or not, when the "UNLESS" condition is valid...
