One more thing (& no - I'm not trying to keep at you)...
I stand by my "don't let your new interest be your FB friend". You announced in your status that you were going out. Your sister asked you with who. You announced a lovely new lady friend. Now someone asked you if it was "Karen". Your lady friend can read that. If she doesn't ask you about "Karen" (which I think she will) she will wonder. Heck - even I want to know who "Karen" is LOL
There is a lot to be said for the "mystique" and frankly - FB reveals all.