Psych I'm pretty new here but I remember reading in DR under goals, I believe, where MWD states to think of "will what I'm about to do get me closer to my goals or move me further away"? I guess waking her up was inconsiderate. MWD also talks about looking into her eyes when they speak and do not interrupt.I think what you did was persuing or maybe a little needy, not too attractive to W. Just my 2c. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”