Psych I'm pretty new here but I remember reading in DR under goals, I believe, where MWD states to think of "will what I'm about to do get me closer to my goals or move me further away"? I guess waking her up was inconsiderate. MWD also talks about looking into her eyes when they speak and do not interrupt.I think what you did was persuing or maybe a little needy, not too attractive to W. Just my 2c. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden