I'm with OT here. If she is telling you something - listen. You 2 sound like you're going from zero to sixty in 2.3 seconds and she is scared.
Shortly before we got married my H became really nasty with me one night. I was shocked. He told me he was tired of always being so nice to me because he really wasn't always nice. I wondered if I should call off the wedding and mentioned it to a couple of friends. Most said he was just having a bit of "cold feet" - something normal. Only one suggested I listen. He did change after that and often refused to listen to my feelings - felt like he was giving in.
In hindsite - I'm sure he WAS trying to tell me something. And maybe I should have called it off.
Give her some space. If you are both enjoying each other's company and doing nice things for each other - great. But proceed with caution.
