You are a different person now than you were while getting to that place. New skills, new mindset.
So, it does not have to be an all or nothing kind of thing, right?. Like, if I spend time with her I will be back at that bad place because you know so much more about the peace place.
And if you do nothing and she doesnt, at this point, will you be satisfied and have not regrets.? Cuz I'm thinking that you need some real definitive answers because of who you are and so that peace you are protecting so much might have a kink in it when all is said and done.
I am not saying to push his with her. Not at all. I am asking, I guess, what you could live with if nothing happens as a result of that email?
Stil sticking with taking this very slowly, from a place osf strength and being totally true to yourself.
The other thing I'm thinking (yea, yea, I'm a girl what of it?) is that if she isnt done yet, she isn going to have the tools she needs to answer that email honestly because she is scared, also.
Anyway, sorry for the rambling. Just wanted to get my thoughts to pape and to tell you you're ok in my book, True.
Well said Brook.....
And don't worry about the typos......
We are used to reading the Gortons fish guy ......
