He did get the papers and I did contact him. He said it was "weird" to get the papers and wasn't what he wanted!?! Could've fooled me. Anyway, said he doesn't want to fight or argue. We shall see. THe agreement was sent to him today. I am pretty sure some of it wont' go over well. I don't even know what it is to love myself. I have been taking care of and loving others for the last many years. I have lived with manipulation and someone speaking condenscending to me and denying and telling my I had the problems for so long. It is like I have to reprogram myself. Not a quick fix I am sure of. I often think this OW will get all of this and more now. Lucky her. Not!