Thanks Violin. I think today she's feeling some stuff cuz I spoke with her at break and she was saying how people always think she's so nice "but I'm not, y'know!" I almost asked her whether she was trying to scare me? We talked a bit about how everyone has different parts of who they are. She keeps talking about how mean she is. She's scared. I get the feeling that this last day and our "togetherness" lately is maybe creating a bit of anxiety for her. Her "protect yourself" instinct is rising up. As I said, neither of us has been in a R for a long time and she's used to taking care of herself, just as I am. We'll see but I'm gonna give her space right now.