Sorry you had to visit here Mike. It's a long, tough process. I have learned on here and in the book that its most important to focus on yourself. Take care of yourself and do things that make you happy. The list above is good stuff.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012