I agree somewhat with JS, but I also wouldn't waste too much time thinking and worrying about it (easier said than done!)
My therapist has been telling me all summer to try not to anticipate things too much, as most of the time things you imagine don't come true or don't work out the way you there thinking. And on the outside chance they do, then you will have had to deal with it twice - once in your mind, and then again when it actually happens.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012