Thanks Gritter. I just need more time and space to get myself right and get to a place where I won't be enticed to question her and 'fight' her. I'm also still struggling with the finality of having the house emptied of her stuff....it will just be a sad time and will make everything that more real.
We actually spoke to each other fine tonight, she seemed to be ok with the fact that I'm not around for a while...there was no anger or tension from either of us. I think because I was acting happy and upbeat and there was no M talk.
It sounds like you are playing this right. I'd stay dark and continue focusing on yourself. On the occasion you do communicate, be upbeat and happy, and don't talk about the status of the relationship.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
