I've been divorced for 4 years now ... and I still keep checking in here a couple times a week (co-dependent anyone??)
My x married the woman he left with (had to hurry through the divorce papers so they could make their planned date ... I think the papers came through on the day of the wedding ... oops!)
Our divorce was the best, worse thing that ever happened to me. I think it triggered a bit of a MLC in me and the first couple of years were TOUGH.
I took the opportunity to really follow my dreams and I left my successful, but boring and soul destroying job in the Capital and moved to remote outback Australia where I worked in Aboriginal communities for 3 years. Now I work for a mining company advising on community affairs at their sites all over the world. I love it. I wouldn't change a thing.
My x tried to reconcile a couple of times (once not long after he was married????) but after all we'd been through - and who I was becoming - I realised that it would have been easy and it may have been good for a while, but ultim
