Thanks Gritter.
I just need more time and space to get myself right and get to a place where I won't be enticed to question her and 'fight' her.
I'm also still struggling with the finality of having the house emptied of her stuff....it will just be a sad time and will make everything that more real.

We actually spoke to each other fine tonight, she seemed to be ok with the fact that I'm not around for a while...there was no anger or tension from either of us. I think because I was acting happy and upbeat and there was no M talk.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011