General question....when most couples seperate, do they shuffle the kids back and forth between homes????
RO
When my W moved out we sat the kids down and asked them what they wanted to do (ours are 14 & 12, so understand a bit more, not sure of your kids ages), and they wanted what we had hoped i.e. a week each at a time. This worked as W only moved round the corner, so schooling remains the same, and they can pop round each others at any time.
Although this has now changed, as the kids want to be with me 10 out of 14 days, and the reason W has become nasty.
It hard, and morally a week each is right, BUT, its what the kids want..
So, what I am saying is........
If what you are saying you believe is right for the children's welfare and well-being, and not your own personal agenda, then stick to it.
It will be hard, very hard, you will get venom spuing big time, but stand by it for the kids
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
