try to relax. tell her that you guys can touch base next week. don't even address leaving the key at the friend's.
What kind of stuff does she have at your place?
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce