*Be the best Dad I can-spend quality time with them not just exist in their presence; hug them and tell them I love them; help them learn, and grow; share as many experiences with them as I can; teach them self respect and respect for others; teach them to chase their dreams
*Learn to express my feelings and be vulnerable-say things that I feel don’t just keep them to myself; share my fears; tell people I love that I do and show them
*Be happy-look for the positives in every situation; minimize my negative thoughts; enjoy other people’s joy especially my sons; live for today but plan for tomorrow; do things that I enjoy
*Re-establish a meaningful career-continue searching for a good job but start putting a real effort into my business
*Save my marriage-Do the above to the best of my ability
*Be the best husband I can to my W or some woman in the future-More of the above to the best of my ability
