So I sent the card to my W yesterday. She received it today and just emailed me saying:
"Hi Cam,
Thank you for the very lovely card.
I think it would be good if the two of us caught up. Are you free Sunday evening?"
I'm not sure what to do....I don't really want to catch up with her as I know nothing will have changed, I would rather stay dark, and remove myself from the situation. Can't deal with this, as it will go bad when she tells me what I don't want to hear.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011