Tad, I know that dbing seems to be converse to how you think you should act.
But, here's the thing. First of all, she KNOWS how you feel. Trust me on that. If you continue to tell her, be there, not detach, it begins to feel to her like you are not hearing her.
She is telling you that she does not want to be in contact. Accept and respect her decision.
Because if you don't, she will continue to feel as if you are not getting it. Same old same old. He isnt hearing me. He isnt listening.
And more importantly, if you keep hanging on , it weighs you down, it saps your energy. Energy better spent on you.
Who cares if she thinks your agry. Thats her problem.
You need to concentrate on you. She needs to continue on her journey. Let her.
Love her enough to let her go right now. Give her the space to figure out that the problem isnt you, but is inside her. .
Tad, she knows just where to find you, right where she left you.
You need to move forward. She needs to see that you are.
You can either continue on as you are or you can begin to live your life.
