"I know it is supposed to be for me, but I worry like Hell that she may think..."
If you say that you KNOW that it is supposed to be for YOU, but you worry what SHE may think, then you're not grasping that it is for YOU.
Friendly 2 x 4 :-)
The most simple but difficult truth for us to process is that there is nothing our actions can do to make them start behaving in the way we WANT. We have to let go of what we want and accept what is going on, and do what we can to protect our own wounded hearts.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
