She's not the same spouse right now. My H wasn't (and now isn't) either... altho' we don't want to (I reallyreallyreally don't want to) we have to detach and move on.. with or without them. They're sinking and they'll take us down with them if we don't let go.
It's time to take a journey of our own. I let my H know the last time that I'm going to walk down the road and he's more then welcome to run up and catch up with me, if he wants to.
Gotta become strong beautiful people... the kind of strong, beautiful, kind, loving people that only a fool would leave. And maybe one day after our WAS have seen their path through to the bitter end and have seen that the grass isn't so green.. maybe they'll look at the prize they left behind. Maybe they'll be willing to do the work to get it back.
I know that's a lot of maybe's... but what's the alternative. Stay miserable?
