To DB, or not to DB, that is the question.

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((()))) E, I'm sorry to hear about the wicked roller coaster.

Well, I know you're all going to be so surprised but H dropped the bomb again on our anniversary.

You're kidding! You didn't see that coming at all!



I don't know how you can take his bombs seriously. Is it at the point where they go in one ear and out the other? On a serious note, if you can detach from these bombs, I think your mental health would improve. It may be that he's pushing buttons, expecting a particular reaction. Could this be his way of indicating he wants to talk?

My LIST again? Seriously?

I think you need to just make photocopies of that bad boy.

What the heck is his problem?

Frankly, I think he's very, very confused. I don't think he knows what he wants. He's reading all these books, he's talking about the same things all the time. He's all over the map. He's searching.

He said he wanted to read that "Hold onto your Nuts" book (which I mentioned I had bought for him during our conversation last night.

I'm going to chalk this one up as a positive. I haven't read the book myself, but I have a general idea what it's about. I believe matches up pretty well at least one of your hot buttons on your list. I think it's good he wants to read it.

I'm really dreading talking about this sitch because everyone thinks my life is so perfect.

It may help to let go of it, though. If I haven't learned anything over these last 3 1/2 years, I've at least learned that everybody, and I do mean EVERYBODY has their junk. I think everyone thought the same of me, too. Getting it out there helped me, at least. It's helped me to help other people, too. Once people know I'm not perfect, either, they will share more.

I'm glad you found us here, E. I'm pulling for you.

Hang in there, E. ((()))