good post 25. I needed that one also. I am still reeling after finding for sure about OW on Sunday -- (this is Thursday) but you are so right. GAL instead of wondering where my wayward spouse is.
It is so difficult Julz. I have read your whole sitch and my heart goes out to you. I am sending peaceful thoughts to you. Do anything nice for yourself today. One thing I did differently tonight was made dinner. Usually I've not been eating but I wanted to be doing something different when she comes home (still not here now...) so I cooked and put on Jazz and lit candles throughout the house.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed